What does his body language tell you?

number 4 gave you the answer to the whole night, if he was really into you, the phone would be off or on vibrate and he would not be checking, 5, 9 says he was looking for a one night stand or something physical, when you did not give in or you did give in the first date, he either did not get or got what he wanted and is done. if he wanted or was into you he would have called back before a week was over. hold your ground, young lady's now a days its not worth the one nighters. wait til someone that really loves you shows up.