THE FIRST GIRL THAT YOU WENT OUT WITH?

I tried being a player cause it seemed like it got more girls. then one day i met a girl i actually liked, and i stopped being a player. this was 2 years ago, we had one breakup but it was my fault and i apologized and we're back together. when i was doing girl hopping or whatever you wanna call it, it only lasted about a week. and this one is still two years. and yeah the first girl i liked, i told her, she said she liked me back and she blocked me on facebook and never talked to me again. then the second girl i liked, i went out with and she surprised me by having her best friends come and make fun of me, then she threatened to break up with me whenever i said something back to her friends, and then i broke up with her. the reason men become players is because we know the relationship is gonna end and that they probably would cheat on us eventually. what i find funny is that they say "theres no good guys left for me *cry cry whine* and i just say "umm hello? maybe it's cause you've been on and off with your boyfriend for a year. and then when your not dating him your dating another player."